Oh No! I’m Pregnant.
The pregnancy test shows positive, and this is not the result you wanted. Now what?
You Have Options
What you need to know is there are options, and there are people who can help you. If you have been delaying dealing with your pregnancy, then your options may be limited to parenting or adoption.
Do You Want to Parent?
Only you can answer the question of your ability to parent at this time. Can you provide a safe a loving home for an infant? Are you emotionally and financially ready to devote yourself to a child for the next 18 years?” Will you have ongoing support from family, friends, and the baby’s father? These are all questions you need to answer honestly.
Adoption is the other option. Many don’t know much about modern adoption. Today, if you choose to place your child for adoption, you get to choose the parents. You and the adoptive parents set up a Post Adoption Contact Agreement, and you will be able to receive updates, letters, pictures and may even have visits with your child. If you want no contact afterward, that’s okay too.
All you need to do is call or text an adoption coordinator and let them know you need more information and help. Your adoption coordinator will be there for you. She will make sure you have all the medical services you need and any necessities you may be missing. If you have been trying to squeeze into those jeans, she can send you some maternity clothes to get you through the next few months.
Many women have delivered a baby at home, in a bathroom, after hiding the pregnancy. If that is your plan, you can still do adoption. It is a choice that gives your baby a life and ensures you don’t get in trouble. There is no cost to you and it can all be completed privately – no one has to know.
If this is not the right time for you to have a baby, you can still help a couple become a family. You can give your baby the gift of a great life. A life full of love and happiness.
Reach out today.